marriage-advice-happy-relationship

In this true story for marriage help a woman goes with her marriage problem to an Indian Saint who is married. The Indian Saint gives marriage advice for happy marriage relationship. This magic FORMULA for healthy marriage is simple yet overwhelmingly profound. See how it dissolves her marriage anger.

I have translated this from original Marathi
Source:
Shri Brahmachaitanya Gondavalekar Maharaj hyanchya hrudya atwani
Published by Yashwant Prakashan©
Collection of the Master’s Anecdotes by Bappusaheb Marathe
Preface by Prof. K. V. Belsare
There was a well educated couple. Both were Professors in the same college. Their difference of opinion usually lead to flared arguments. After some time husband was transfered to another town. Both lived in their new place. Initially they had good time, however, one day they had bitter argument. The husband lost his temper and slapped his wife. The lady could not take this. The same day she took a night train and went away to her mother’s place. After this incidence days passed by and she received the news that her husband suffered from deadly fever. She could not decide what she ought to do. So she met the Master [Gondavelekar Maharaj]. The Master said,

“Suppose, there is a two wheeler. If one wheel goes one way and the other wheel another way then the vehicle is ruined. It is common knowledge that there is difference between man and a woman. However, for the world’s drama to go on smoothly this difference is necessary. Nature has bestowed Man with the trait of Courage and generosity and so is woman bestowed with tolerance and capacity to surrender unconditionally. In drills of worldly life accepting defeat behooves the quality of tolerance. This reflects the greatness of the mind. World is a drama created by God.
It is our duty to play the role assigned to us to the best of our ability. Even if one gets a trivial role he should play it exquisitely, so that he gets the same credit as playing a big role. Begetting a child and getting the honor to be a mother is your right alone. Your husband can never ever get this. Therefore, remove from your mind the insistence of getting your rights. The real joy and satisfaction is when both live mutually loving each other.”

When the lady asked, “Then what shall I do?” the Master replied, “take the first train and go to your husband. Serve him as though nothing at all happened earlier. Every morning, bow down once, and touch your head at his feet. (The Indian way of salutation to the Lord.)He will feel better.”

As advised the lady went to her husband and followed the Master’s instructions. In few days husband’s fever came down. One day when she bowed and kept her head on his feet he started sobbing. The lady was frightened. Then the husband said to her, “My health is good. However, I behaved like an animal with you and I am feeling terribly guilty about it. You overlooked my behavior and rushed here for my sake. I have no doubt that you met some Master. I promise you that henceforth I will never do such a mistake.” After some days they gave birth to a boy and with the baby the couple came to meet the Master.
Master: His Holiness Shri Brahmachaitanya Gondavelekar. Maharaj means King. It is respectful way of addressing a God Realized Saint.
Source:
Shri Brahmachaitanya Gondavalekar Maharaj hyanchya hrudya atwani
Published by Yashwant Prakashan©
Collection of the Master’s Anecdotes by Bappusaheb Marathe
Preface by Prof. K. V. Belsare

Dr. Ashok Koparday
MBBS, FC SEPI
Medical Director
Samadhan India
Center for Therapy, Education, Research in
Sex, Marriage, Relationships

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Seth G. S. Medical College and K. E. M. Hospital and
Grant Medical College and Sir J. J. Group of Hospitals
University of Mumbai, India

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One response to “marriage-advice-happy-relationship

  1. Dedicated to ALL Married Couples♥:) They say that marriage makes a man dizzy, and it’s true. Assoon as I got a wife, I lost my balance at the bank.:|8-| Men want THREE qualities in their wives: Economist in kitchen, Artist in home & Devil in bed. 🙂 But they getan Artist in kitchen, Devil in home& Economist in Bed.:( 😀 Question: Why do women live longer than men?/:) Answer: Shopping never causes heart attacks, but paying the bill does! :> Before marriage : Roses are red, sky is blue. U r beautiful, & I love u.({}) After marriage : Roses are dead, I’m blue. U r my headache, & one day I’ll kill u.:O Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends. 🙂 You order what you want, then when you see what the other person has, you wish you had ordered that./:) =D Man : Is there any way for long life?:( Dr : Get married. Man : Will it help? Dr : No, but the thought of a long life will never come.

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